2 Pieces needed to make Peace

On rough occasions we make rash decisions;with time all good things will heal.  well i guess this isn't a good thing or maybe its not long enough to heal...or maybe its the fact that its just not meant to be.  i mean look back on life, look at how hard we try to make amends with others and struggle to put our best foot forward to keep people around; sometimes they stay, sometimes they go, sometimes they stay for a little while but end up going.  I mean what is the driving force behind wanting to make amends with others possibly where we need to look before we can approach that person.  do we want to make amends just to have self-acceptance; that you don't have to wake up knowing someone isn't there that used to be.  maybe its our own realization that we need that person back in our lives because things just aren't the same without them.  well if you went with the first or second option you really have only one option after that...REACH OUT.  Go after it and try to get it back...but one thing i've learned in life is that no matter how hard you try, you can't control another persons life.  WELL maybe you can but maybe you shouldn't.  we live our own lives trying to be who we want to be and trying to control another persons life may be because we aren't happy with our own; in result we try to control another persons life around us in order to achieve what we want that we couldn't get from ourselves.  NOT going too deep into this but sit around, exercise, work, sleep, do whatever you must do today but think about all the times you tried to regain a friendship, relationship, or whatever it may have been by making amends.  analyze why it worked out or maybe why it didnt work out.  Take a look at how you attempted to get what you wanted back; Was it Control? Was it spilling your heart out to them?, What was the reason for wanting them back??....IF YOU LOVE SOMETHING, LET IT GO, IF IT COMES BACK; IT WAS MEANT TO BE....
Sincere,
LIfE


P.s.: never try to control another's life, actions, or decisions...control your own and then maybe the rest will follow...no one in life wants to follow a failure...we all want to follow a successor ....RIGHT??



LIfE-STYLE:...if I didn't have bills i had to be paying for at this moment you would probably see me wearing this...I'M ALL ABOUT CLASS...i mean whoever said you can't wear white after labor day must have not been about LIfE-STYLE
http://www.gq.com/fashion-shows/fullscreen/S2010MEN-GUCCIMEN/